when the holidays make it harder to feel close
40% off black friday offer • open thru december 1
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turn tension into trust
it usually starts small, then turns into something bigger.
you both want to stop the cycle but end up feeling tense again.
you miss how easy it used to feel to talk and get each other.
the reconnect experience helps you bring that ease back.
you’ll learn how to pause before things spiral, say what you actually mean, and find your way back to calm faster.
head to the bottom of this page anytime to compare the payment plan with the course only option. Everything is laid out for you there.
why this actually works
i’ve been a psychologist for 29 years, and every week i see the same thing.
two people who care about each other but get stuck in the same five minutes of every argument.
one shuts down, the other pushes harder, and both walk away frustrated.
the reconnect experience gives you the same tools i use in sessions to help couples pause before those five minutes take over.
🌿 inside, you’ll find:
• clear scripts that show what to say when things get tense
• guided practices that help you calm your body so you can actually listen
• one private 45-minute coaching session with me to make it fit your real relationship
it’s simple, practical, and made for real life.
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where real change happens
your black friday enrollment includes one private 45-minute coaching session with me.
this is where we take everything you’ve learned and make it yours.
we’ll focus on whatever feels stuck right now.
maybe it’s how to bring up a hard topic without it turning into a fight.
maybe it’s how to handle a tense family moment or find the words to reconnect after silence.
in every session, there’s a moment when something clicks.
that’s the shift we’re aiming for.
after this session, couples tell me they leave lighter, more clear, and ready to try again in real life.
everything you need to know about the investment details, including the course-only price, is at the bottom of the page.
Hi, I'm Dr. Kristin Barnhart
inside the reconnect experience, you’ll walk through short lessons that show exactly how to bring ease back when things start to feel tense.
you’ll practice:
1) how to stop spirals before they take over
2) what to say when a conversation starts drifting into misunderstanding
3) how to tell the difference between venting and problem-solving
4) when to use small resets that help you both feel grounded after family or work stress
5) more skills personalized for your relationship during the coaching session
🌿each lesson takes about 10–15 minutes and gives you something you can try the same day.
when you’re ready for more personal guidance, your private session helps you apply everything to your real life, you know, the way you actually talk, react, and repair.
most couples notice small wins after the first few lessons and even bigger shifts once they’ve had their coaching session.
when you’re deciding what works best for you, go to the bottom of the page for the full menu of pricing options, including the payment plan.
why this timing matters
the holidays are supposed to feel good, but sometimes they don’t.
between travel, family stuff, and a packed schedule, it’s easy to start snapping at each other or just feel off.
this is the best time to slow down and get back on track before december gets crazy busy.
when you know how to stay calm and talk through things, it feels easier to be together.
couples tell me they start feeling more relaxed after the first few lessons.
they say conversations go smoother, the tension fades faster, and things finally feel normal again.
you can start now and walk into december feeling grounded, close, and actually ready to enjoy the holidays together.
you’ll find the full list of investment choices at the bottom of the page.
that’s where you can compare the payment plan with the course-only option.
what couples are saying
this is what couples share after practicing the communication tools and their coaching sessions. they talk about the small shifts that changed everything.
“we stopped fighting about every little thing. it finally feels calm at home again.”
“i didn’t expect results this fast. we used one of the phrases in a fight last week, and it actually worked.”
“we can finally talk without it turning into a whole thing. we still disagree, but it doesn’t feel like a breakup every time.”
“it’s not perfect, but we’re laughing again, and the tension we had all the time is mostly gone.”
questions you might be asking
what if my partner isn’t sure about this yet?
it’s okay if one of you starts first. small shifts from one person often change the tone fast.
will we actually have time for this?
yes. lessons are short and simple to use. you can watch one in ten minutes and try it the same day.
is this therapy?
no. therapy looks backward. this helps you handle what’s happening right now.
do we have to show up live?
no. everything is self-paced. your private session is scheduled when it fits your schedule.
what if we don’t feel bad enough for this?
you don’t need to be in crisis for this to help. it’s for couples who want things to feel lighter and easier.
how soon will we notice changes?
many couples say their communication starts getting better within the first week. small wins add up fast once you both have words that work
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